My cousin told her mom, first day of school , that there were some
students who are famous Instagram "Fashionistas " with her ,
everyone was making a huge fuss & asking them for photos , She was
really impressed & excited while talking about that subject , by the way
she is only 10.
Another friend was telling me about her 8-
year -old daughter`s life goal:
"I want to be Famous Mama”
"Famous doing what?”
"To look hot & post my
everyday look on Instagram”
I am not a mother yet,
but If I had a child, I would be concerned about what`s going on in social media.
I know that it is normal to get influenced by celebs and I am fine with it, I`ve
been in the same situation when I was a teenager, from magazines & TV shows,
but what is happening now is completely different .The "Social Media "
celebrities are ordinary people, living with us & part of our society, attending
schools with us, cousins & friends.
Not only the children
are excited about that magical life of fame, but also teenagers & college girls,
reading their desperate comments asking one of the "Celeb, fashionista
..." or whatever they are calling themselves now , about how she is taking
care of her weight , how she can get that perfect body , even though she is not
exercising or following a diet ?? I will respect her more if she tell the truth
about all the surgeries done to her or being done, but what she is telling them
“Sakray
7aljich “
Meaning: literally Close your mouth & stop eating!!
Unrealistic and unhealthy portrayals can lead girls to feel insecure,
stressed & confused. This girl will do what the fashionista told her &
she will not achieve the results of course & imagine her feelings, there
are more & more examples of how some of the Social media celebs are applying
bad influence.
I have nothing against them, there are many great role models that
I am so proud of them.
All what I am wishing & looking for is incredibility, this is
a worldwide issue, parents are facing huge obstacles & challenges.
Be real & spread a positive massage if you want to be a good
role model .