Hello Sunday ,
J is upset , things were not going well for him , I know they are simple issues but he feels so annoyed , he was planning to travel with his friends but , they canceled & I know that he was stressed thinking about our house "plan" & I know that he needs a break . He doesn`t want to travel with me , he needs his "guys" only time . The problem is that I want to do anything to ease his tension .
Trust me the task of cheering my man up has proven to be very difficult .With girls asking :
Are you ok ?
how can I help ?
I am here for you
do you want to talk
will be enough to let everything goes , also , personally going to a spa will help me a lot
but with men , I guess it is a different issue , approaching him with that kind of questions will never be a good idea
every man is different , some men will need space , break , a time to be alone
With J I am not sure , sometimes he tells me that he wants me to be there with him , doing nothing , that`s it , my presence is important even If i am not giving him any solution .
I give him a kiss , sit next to him in , hug him , without saying a word .
he calls me when he is out , to just talk and let go & I listen
He is moody now a days
but there is nothing I can do .
so ............... I will let you know if we are done from this issue