Thursday, January 23, 2014

A Life After Marriage Post : Tell him the truth قولي الصج

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وايد عادي اني اخلص شغلي بعد الدوام و عمره ج ما قالي لا لا تروحين و لا يسألني عن تفاصيل بس من كثر ما انا معاه ما نقدر نخش عن بعض اي شي ، حدي اصير مكشوة اذا بسوي له مفاجأة ، المهم عشان عيد ميلاده صارت لويه لأن اهو كان بيسافر مع ربعه و بعدين كنسل السفرة و لوية  و احنا السنة ما راح نشتري هدايا بأعياد الميلاد بعدين اقولكم ليش 
المهم اني كنت بسوي له كيكة و عشان اطلب الكيك لازم بعد الدوام اروح ، المهم حده درى و عرف اني بسوي له كله بدون ما اتكلم 
هههه كلش ماكو غموض 
انا و ج جذي علاقتنا مع انه للأسف ثقافة مجتمعنا انه لا تقولين الصج ، ،انا ما اقول انه هالشي غلط بس عندي انا ما يمشي و لا احبه 
ما احب لما يقولون لا تقولين له انج تعبانة الريال ما يحب جذي 
لا تقولين له انج تحبين تاكلين مادري شنو 
لا تخلينه يدري انج مثلا تسوين تنظيف بشة عشان بشرتج تصير صافية 

ما احب هالعلاقة 

انا وحده احب الصراحة و احب علاقتي مع زوجي تكون جذي و راح يعارضوني وايد انا ادري 

لكن انا قاعدة اشوف النتايج جدامي 
الأزواج اللي يخششون وايد اشياء و الأزواج  اللي يقولون كل شي فرق وايد بين علاقتهم فبعض 


انا اذا شي مضايقني اقوله على طول  ما احتاج الف و ادور الحمدالله غير اللي تقعد تدور مليون خطة عشان تقول 

انا ما اعرف هالشي 

المهم 
اهو عرف  اني رايحة اشتري له الكيكة ماكو فايدة ههههه يبين علي اني قاعدة األف 



I usually get my stuff done after work, sometimes I pass by the avenues or go for a hair treatment session , spa, etc….. I don`t remember once  j asking me why , where and what I am doing   , I call and tell him that I have things to do & that's it.


But when I decided to visit Littletreats to order his Birthday cake , I don`t know how he noticed  that I was not telling him the truth, he even told me not to bother myself and get him a gift (this is another story I will let you know why in another post)


We have an open book relationship , I know I have a unique one and  many women will not agree on that, I hate that in our culture, the relationship between couples should be full of secrets, yes, I don't mind some "mystery" in a good way, I remember an advice, "don`t ever tell him or show that you are tired or sick or whatever, men don't like weak women!!"  Come on, why do you want us to live a fake life?? I like to be me, if I am tired, I will let him know, If I am sick, I will call him and let him be my doctor too , flaws are a part of everyone’s life.  If I try to hide them, I  don’t give the person who loves me a chance to truly know me and love me fully.


Do you think men will love you more if keep acting and faking your feelings and emotions?? If I am a man, I may not trust my wife because I don`t know if she is in love with me  or this is a fake emotion as well

When two become one phrase represents me 100%

Wasting your life in a play is going to destroy you at the end

I am happy, with the real me, the real us, the real love


And J, yes, I was ordering you cake , which I hope you loved .


Happy Birthday , J

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

الله يوفقكم و يرزقكم الذرية الصالحة...و الله يا مروة الله يحفظكم ...ريلج كفو انج تقوليله مو نفس اللي عندنا و في منهم بكثرة ما ينقال لهم شي

Noorelhayat Maskeen said...

Happy BD J!
Now I don't know how valid that can be, but I feel it's good to be lil mysterious in life, especially to the man of your life.

God Bless Both of you!

Noorelhayat Maskeen said...

Now, I don't know how valid this can be, but I feel it's good to keep some of your sides to yourself; not fully exposed, especially to the man of your life.

Happy BD J!

Noorelhayat Maskeen said...

Now, I don't know how valid this can be, but I feel it's good to keep some of your sides to yourself; not fully exposed, especially to the man of your life.

Happy BD J!

Kitchenette Kuwait said...

Yes!!! I've heard this advice of secret keeping a million times and still do! Luckily i don't live by it!! ������