I am blessed , Thanks God , do I ever love that guy more every single day ??
Since day 1 , married couples kept telling me how bored life will be after 2 or 3 or 4 years and all the sparks of love will fade away !!
Come on guys , stop doing that to newly wed couples or even to your single friends !! I know that most of you are laying and never tell the truth .
I started my blog 7 years ago to show a real experience , I am not an expert & I believe that my marriage has its ups and downs . Alhamdullh , Thanks God after 7 years , which I don't know how fast these years has gone by , I still feel from the inside that I am still a “New Bride “
I was worried , are we going to end up living in a bored , loveless life ?? Specially that we don`t have any children?
oh I have to mention that in Kuwait , people relate the successes of your marriage by how many individuals you are going to add to this universe ;)
Truth to be told , after all these years , I feel more attracted to him than I ever have before , more in love and more like a family , we`ve always been a team and still we are , but Stronger . Thanks God
Some people said that I was faking all that , that I am living in a “dream” and all my life was lie and I believed it just to keep my blog going :P
So , here we are , I will show you how my fake , happy life became a reality ;)
It is not easy , you need to work hard for your marriage and we both did .
A few years ago , we both been through difficult situations , I was trying to get pregnant , then I noticed that it will not be easy for me to conceive , with daily treatments , painful injections , time wasted at hospitals , a one moth disappointment extended to be six months , I was crying in the car , in bed , in the shower , I started to blame myself , became angry at other people . I hated myself for the way I was acting . I even thought about getting a divorce .
The only person who understands how to deal with me was J . He was supportive and always there , telling me that he didn’t care , that he is in love with me & I know deep inside that he wanted me to come back to him , the girl he loved and married .
I woke up one day , looked at him sleeping next to me and I realized that I am blessed . I am not going to talk about my recovery in details , but according to my experience , Keeping “Allah” in the center of your life is the main reason for all the happiness and peace of mind .
I learned that couples grow closer and their bonds grow stronger through difficult times , this issue puts my marriage to the test , and my marriage pass that test with an A+ grade . Alhamdullah
I am a happy successful “ New bride “ married to the most amazing man “ j”
And yes , the hard times I`ve been through were real
As well as
My happy marriage
Happy Anniversary my Love
Congrats on the 7 years dear! And allah iykhaleekum lba3ath inshala
Lovely honest post. Happy Anniversary and many happy returns..
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