That was the question i heard thousand times , when people i know heard about the news of my cousins loss of her husband , do they have kids ? once i said No the got relived and said ashwa??
i was wondering , why they feel that her loss is easier now because she don`t have children ??
I will talk to you according to my experience , not having any kids yet , made my relationship with my husband stronger , of course in my case , j was there for me and both of us make a pact to stick with each other no matter what .
So , couples with no children usually live together happily , they understand each other , and they know they are there for each other . Not all couples think that way , it depends on the form of their relationship , communication , and why did they married for the first place .
More over acceptance is an important factor to keep their marriage stronger , more importantly, they don't let the desire to have kids outweigh the love between them .
These are some of the ways that kept me live my life happily , people keep asking me , how i am dealing with my life , or how can i enjoy it and survive in my marriage ? i am a human and yes sometimes it hurts me , but that is God`s will , i am sorry to say that but comparing my life with people around me makes me say Al7mdelah , because i don't want to have children and live the way they are living .
My cousin loves her husband a lot , i know that , so i hate it when people thought that because she don`t have children her sadness will be less , trust me , the more time you spend with partner the stronger your love will be .
Allah yr7mah o y6amin galbha enshalah