Monday, May 14, 2007

how kids r thinking these days ??

i guess all of u noticed how kids are thinking these days , their role models , their interests and also the way they talk and communicate with others . how could parents deal with the strange ideas that enter their minds and brain and effect them morally , it is hard to raise kid now really .

even if u try to raise your kid perfectly , to inculcate morals and rules on them the outside atmosphere will effect them and it may create boundaries between u and your kids , u `ll be the old-fashion narrow-minded parent !! personally i will be depressed if my kid thinks about like that . what made me thought abot this topic ,was my conversation with my niece , she is 6 years old , her favorite game is to log on the Internet goggling images !!! for example she writes her name and goggle it , and watch the images that appear under her name . i remember on her age my favorite game was playing as laundry owner "Man" @@

she was using my laptop that`s why i am googling with her :

مومة : حطي حطي اسم "م-م" خل نشوف شنو يطلع ؟؟
انا : منو هذي بعد ؟
مومة : هذي رفيجتي بصفي واااي تهبل تهبل (هذا كان اسلوبها ترى
انا: شنو تهبل انتي تهبلين بعد .
مومة : واي لا لا لا اهي ويها -وجهها- ما في شي
انا : شنو يعني مافي شي؟ مافي عيون ما في خشم _طبعا انا العمة قاعدة استعبط و قاعدة اكلمها على اساس انها ياهل بأولى ابتدائي
مومة :واي الحمدالله و الشكر من صجج ؟
اناطبعا تفشلت من ردها و جوجو قام يضحك علي :ها شنو الحمدالله و الشكر يالله عيب انا عمتج -طبعا ردي هذا من الشعور بالفشلة :)
مومة : يعني كل شي بالويه صغير و راكب على بعضه ماكو شي غلط ماشالله

i was shocked !!!!!!! kids on the first grade knows that the look is the most important thing in life (today) i don`t remember we ever think about that when we were kids ?? we don`t judge people by their look ?? i heard her once talking on the phone with her frind (3eshtaw) about hair cuts and how one of the girls had a bad hair cut cuz her hair ( mo na3em ) :(

this is sad , they r not living their childhood , walah i was wondering after 10 years how girls are going to think ???

i read and article on Glamour sayes" we can not blame little girls for dressing up and acting sexy like adults if "Bratz" r their role model !?!?!


newly_wed said...

actually i was about to post about a wonderful article i read in glamour .. i guess a junk magazine like glamour can still have good articles to read :)

about ur niece, bsara7a, when i was 6-7.. way...until maybe 13 or 14 did i start talking to my friends on phone, ya3ni im 7!! what would i possibly talk about on phone with my friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!! seriousely, and el mosalsalat, they know them by heart, and all our series is about women and men and relationships and rape.. and... u know what i mean,
i have already started reading books about child raising, bs the thing u can not control is the environment.. u can not control how his/her friends are.. all u can do is invest in the first 5 years of u together as much as possible, and stay closely and watching every new attitude in the child.

what i dont like about kids today is they stay late! i used to sleep at 8 or 9 max! o kanat ommi tnwemna ethohor ba3ad. we were soooo obedient. aslan til this age, my eyes close after 11 :p

vyyvaa said...

by the way thats me.. newly wed, my old blog.

Sara said...

6ofolatna kanat a7la 6ofoola kenna nel3ab bl barbeyat oo nshoof 5alty gmasha oo 6am6oom wel anesa doraqa !! wala ayaam 7lwa .. al7een bnt bl ebteda'ee 3ndaha mobile etha mo boyfriend b3d :/

o madry shloon yel3ebon bhal le3baa ely mbagega 3yonha oo bara6emha btenbaa6 men el taaf5 @@

Allaa yahde hal ahal ely m5aleen 3yalhom chethy o ysolfoon men al7een chenhom 7reem kbaar o y3arfoon ashya '3areeba oo 3ajeeba :/

eshda3wa said...

i think khaleel jibran said it best

Your children are not your children.

They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.

They come through you but not from you,

And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts.

For they have their own thoughts.

You may house their bodies but not their souls,

For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.

You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.

For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.

The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.

Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;

For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.

vyyvaa said...




af7amtini ..